You have two connectors on one assistant and you are no longer sure which one just answered. Or you invited someone and the request went out under a mangled local-part. Both are identity questions. whoami, set_my_name, and the settings page answer them.
Which account, which host
whoami returns which account this connection is, and which RelayLink host. It reads the handle this deployment actually uses — the same word /docs and the landing page show — so a sandbox names its own handle rather than production's.
That matters because the @ shorthand is taught as a function of the handle. Two hosts teach two words so a package meant for a test account does not land on a real person. When both are connected to one assistant, ask who you are before you draft.
It also says when the account's name is still a placeholder.
The name recipients see
set_my_name and the settings page write the same field: what every recipient sees on packages, requests, and threads that name you. Setting it is one of the first useful things a new account does.
A nickname you set for someone else is a different object — private to your list. Your display name is public to anyone you correspond with.
Placeholder is recorded, not guessed
Accounts created by a cold send or a first sign-in get a display name derived from the address so the row is not blank. That state is a flag on the account. RelayLink does not decide "this looks like a placeholder" by comparing your name to your address. Doing that called real names placeholders.
What the flag changes:
- A contact row under a nickname does not add a third line that is just the address again
list_contactsdoes not print the placeholder in parentheses next to a nickname- The contacts page tells you when your name is still the placeholder, with a link to fix it
whoamisays so in words
Once you set a name, the flag clears and stays cleared. Requests that went out before that used whatever was there.
Handles and short forms
The long form is this host's handle, shown on /docs. The short form is derived when the handle contains "relaylink" — @rl on production, a sandbox-shaped alias on a sandbox. Both open a draft and never a send. The shorthand is the addressing story.
If you are unsure which connector you are talking to, ask who you are. Then set the name recipients should see — on settings or by telling your assistant — before the next invite goes out.