Who you are connected as on RelayLink

whoami answers which account and which RelayLink host this connection is. set_my_name is what recipients see. A placeholder name is recorded on the account — not guessed from the shape of your address.

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You have two connectors on one assistant and you are no longer sure which one just answered. Or you invited someone and the request went out under a mangled local-part. Both are identity questions. whoami, set_my_name, and the settings page answer them.

Which account, which host

whoami returns which account this connection is, and which RelayLink host. It reads the handle this deployment actually uses — the same word /docs and the landing page show — so a sandbox names its own handle rather than production's.

That matters because the @ shorthand is taught as a function of the handle. Two hosts teach two words so a package meant for a test account does not land on a real person. When both are connected to one assistant, ask who you are before you draft.

It also says when the account's name is still a placeholder.

The name recipients see

set_my_name and the settings page write the same field: what every recipient sees on packages, requests, and threads that name you. Setting it is one of the first useful things a new account does.

A nickname you set for someone else is a different object — private to your list. Your display name is public to anyone you correspond with.

Placeholder is recorded, not guessed

Accounts created by a cold send or a first sign-in get a display name derived from the address so the row is not blank. That state is a flag on the account. RelayLink does not decide "this looks like a placeholder" by comparing your name to your address. Doing that called real names placeholders.

What the flag changes:

  • A contact row under a nickname does not add a third line that is just the address again
  • list_contacts does not print the placeholder in parentheses next to a nickname
  • The contacts page tells you when your name is still the placeholder, with a link to fix it
  • whoami says so in words

Once you set a name, the flag clears and stays cleared. Requests that went out before that used whatever was there.

Handles and short forms

The long form is this host's handle, shown on /docs. The short form is derived when the handle contains "relaylink" — @rl on production, a sandbox-shaped alias on a sandbox. Both open a draft and never a send. The shorthand is the addressing story.

If you are unsure which connector you are talking to, ask who you are. Then set the name recipients should see — on settings or by telling your assistant — before the next invite goes out.

Frequently asked questions

Why does whoami mention which server I am on?
Because people often connect more than one RelayLink host to the same assistant — production and a sandbox, for example. The handle is how a package meant for the sandbox stays off a real person. whoami says which account and which host.
Is my display name the local part of my email?
Only as a temporary placeholder when the account was created without a name. That state is recorded on the account, not guessed from the address. "Anthony" for anthony@ is a real name someone chose. Set the name on your settings page or with set_my_name.
Do contact requests go out under the placeholder?
Yes, until you set a name. The contacts page says so when your own name is still the placeholder, with a link to fix it. Recipients see that string as who asked.